Our Philosophy

Life Re-Solutions is about uncovering the old solutions and creating new solutions that work even better than the old ones. The process requires that we understand and respect how brilliant the original solution was. Only by completely understanding the old solution can we move beyond our current experience of ourselves and begin to create the life we want.

We spend a lot of our lives feeling like we have somehow done something wrong. In fact, it is the things we did well that end us up where we are. If this sounds strange, consider it this way. When we were children, we had fewer options in life than we have now. We were dependent on adults for our very survival. When faced with a difficulty, we searched for and found solutions that would work within the framework of our lives. Once we found a solution, we used it and our unconscious locked onto it as something useful. As time passed, the framework of our lives changed (we learned how to dress ourselves, feed ourselves, we moved out of the house into our own space) but our unconscious didn’t know to update the original solution. In other words, we may find that what worked when we were two, might not work when we are 42 years old.

Just about any issue can be transformed. Some of the changes take more time because they are a combination of solutions that need to be updated (re-solved.) One piece of work can generate change in many areas of our lives.

We teach you to work with your system, not against it. We work with the neurology in a way that integrates the re-solution into your being respectfully, as if it’s always been there. There is no remembering to think a certain way or do something differently; your system is updated and new options are available. This is the magic of Life Re-Solutions.

• Re-Solutions updates your personal programs (brain software).
• Life Re-Solutions uses a structured system for change.
• Courses at Life Re-solutions will continually remind you of the brilliance and creativity of yourself and all human beings.
• Be more of your true self without effort.

Example:

A child lives in a household where the parents are stressed and sometimes respond to requests with anger. The anger is scary and the child wants to avoid angering his parents. The child learns to not communicate his wants or needs and to take what is offered so they won’t make the parents mad. Growing up, this works well. Mom or Dad respond well to not being asked for attention and the child avoids their anger. This makes life easier for everyone. The child feels good about “helping” reduce stress in the home.

When this child grows up, however, and gets into relationships this solution doesn’t work so well. In a relationship, it’s important to communicate wants and needs. The adult now feels neglected and because he has learned to not ask, he gets annoyed, maybe angry, and doesn’t even know why -- remember the solution is in the unconscious. The situation is now on a downward spiral, with one person feeling neglected and angry and the other confused as to why their partner is so “moody.” Once we are able to free this individual's system up to respond with options in addition to silence, life takes on new dimensions for the couple.

The above is a simple example. Most of what causes us difficulty or pain is just subtly outdated solutions to old problems.

Clients are often amazed at the seemingly insignificant moments that have ended up with them running an outdated solution. Children are brilliant, and so are their solutions at the moment they are made. But children are severely limited in their ability to understand, and their skills to manipulate the world. Re-Solutions combines the creative brilliance of the child mind and the strength and talent of the adult mind to create something that truly works, and works without ever needing to remember to be different.